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Aerodynamically the bumblebee shouldn’t be able to fly, but the bumblebee doesn’t know that so it goes on flying anyway.

Mary Kay Ash

Living with a disability

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Now that you are on your way to becoming an adult, you have a lot more to think about. Between school, relationships, and after school activities, you sometimes wonder how to juggle everything. As your life changes, so does the way you feel about and manage your disability. Some of you may be uncomfortable talking about your disability to others because you just want to fit in and be “normal”. Some of you may wish that you did not have a disability and could do some of the things your friends can do. You have a right to the way you feel, but sometimes not communicating your feelings and needs about your disability can get in the way of becoming independent.

The way you think about your disability may have a lot to do with the society in which you grew up. There are two common yet different ways our society can view disability.  The first way of looking at disability is called the medical model. According to the medical model, a disability is a medical condition that must be cured. If a person has a disability they must be “fixed” in order to be a whole person. The second way of looking at disability is called the social model. Those who follow the social model of disability believe that the problem is not with the disability itself but with the way society views people with disabilities. They see having a disability as a natural part of the human experience and something of which to be proud.

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